Raising a child can be a difficult situation for any working mother and father, but it is an even more difficult task when there is only one parent to take on this mission. I applaud all the parents who juggle and multitask to provide balance and nourishment for their children, but I still have to remain objective. I can say that I speak with awareness, having friends and family who face this challenge alone. Being a parent has made me realize that there is no one plan that works for everyone, but there certainly is a desired outcome; children who become caring, independent and productive members of society. Through my observations, I have come to the conclusion that single mothers spoil their children with unearned gifts, give their children too much freedom, and let their children get away with bad behavior. The most obvious form of spoiling I have witnessed is my cousin's purchase of an undeserved gift for her teenage son. In my cousin's case, she gave her son the latest iPhone, even after k...