They have more options than ever to air their "dirty whites" for the world to see. Facebook, Twitter, Hi5, YouTube, blogs and a host of other social sites ask the question "what's going on in YOUR life right now?" People broadcast their most intimate details online, most of which should be private and just a few years ago would have been. The spiritual discipline of secrecy involves keeping some of our actions personal and private. This action is intended to help develop trustworthiness. And it works against spiritual pride. In the Bible, Jesus highlights in the Sermon on the Mount three things that require secrecy: giving, prayer and fasting (Matthew 5-7). The fact of the matter is not letting others know about our good deeds so that they think well of us. In other words you don't have to be 'exhibitionists'. Not everything should be shared to be liked on Facebook (Tang,