Children can suffer from fear, grief, anger, depression, shame, sadness, anxiety, embarrassment, guilt, abandonment, and many other things. (Borden, 2015). There is no guarantee that if a child goes through a divorce they will experience some or all of these things and there is no guarantee that they would not experience these things if the divorce also did not happen. A divorce would certainly not help the child in this area and it would be in the best interests of the parents for the divorce not to occur if the children were